y's help unexpected, scarce??????

I've always had a habit of sleeping on transport....  1 night last week, probably thursday night i think, on my way home via mtr, trying to dose suddenly felt the guy 2 seats away from me (almost last train, thus seats very sparse and no one sitting between us...) is somewhat bleeding...  i peek at him n saw him pressing tissues against his palm....  not bleeding very badly but could see that it wasn't stopping either....  n he was really uncomfy, like at a loss of what to do...  thus i just naturally digged into my wallet for a bandage and passed to him....  he looked so stunned n surprised that i started to question if i were doing something wrong???

what is it about this world that we are now in that just a simple gesture like this would make the other party stunned....  ain't everyone supposed to be trying to help another in need? is it only HK or the whole world....  i really don't understand...  y had man lose that warmth in them to help others???  sigh....

tonight, in jusco "fighting for discounted sushi", there's this guy (middle age) beside me, holding to a mountain of 5~7 packs of sushi n trying to make a call home (i think)....  its rather comical watching him trying to balance the sushi n his phone, then the top pack unbalanced n u could c that all's going to fall soon, thus i just naturally reached out and replace the "runaway" for him....  again that stunned, surprised look like he didn't expect any help, that he expected everything to just fall....  y? y's everyone so self-centered now? so much so that help is such a surprise and unexpected....  y do we always expects to only depend on ourselves in times of trouble...  is help to be scarce? if the world that we are currently in is already like this, so self-centered, so selfish, what about the future? would it be better or worse?

or maybe i should just stop being a busy body, n be like everyone else, just watch other misfalls lo....  :<

【Ent】與楊怡再度合作 - 林峯 - Blog

Interesting.... this is one of the few clips that I've seen of Raymond where you can feel from his vibes that he's truely comfortable with another artist....  this time namely Tavia... this is pretty rare from my observation of Raymond who generally gives the feeling that he's friendly with everyone but then there's still a slight distance....  hmmmmmm........

【Ent】今日VIP:王喜 (20090804) 看後感

一向都很喜歡看王喜的演出... 基本上他所演過的劇除了"水許傳"我都看過.... 可能因為他能讓我入戲, 讓我相信他是那個人, 所以特別會看他的演出....

Astrid 從來都是一個 '好' 主持, 她的特色是每個被訪問者都是 '好人'...  所以看她訪問有時會廷悶的...  但這次是有驚喜的, 她讓我更加確信王喜是值得支持的.... 尤其是聽了他如何幫Astrid的親戚, 我真的很感動...  

(Story summary: Astrid's dying relative wanted to 落髮 n asked Astrid for help, but Astrid wasn't able to find the person...  She didn't know Hei then but contact him thru managment for help...  the guy that they were looking for travels all the time n was pretty difficult to locate but in the end Hei managed to locate him in Indonesia and they were in time to fulfill Astrid's dying relative's last wish....)

老實說我相信沒多少人會真的像他那樣去幫一個與他不是很熟的人, 即使是很熟的朋友, 親人也不一定會這樣幫, 更何況是個不熟的人呢...  以前的我或許會, 但現在的我, 我都不敢保證會...  王喜, 謝謝你讓我再一次看到人的 '美'... 相信我不是一個傻子, 相信自己堅持的, 謝謝你...

看了這訪問, 我最大的感覺是: 他是個"高人"....  或許如果我能到他那境界, 或許我會開心點... 不會再那麼計較吧...

Would you sympathize with her if she got into trouble?

was going home via bus the other night, probably around 2+am, when this girl board the bus wearing a "drop-shoulder" whitish top, see-thru, tight short jeans skirt... just when i'm about to alight, i noticed this same girl coming down the stairs for the upper level, with the skirt's "split" in between her tights...  my god, i could almost see her undies...  n i thought to myself, "what the hell" doesn't she know what time it is, she's really asking for trouble man....  I thought probably after she got off the bus, she would probably adjust her skirt to the decent state thus out of curiosity, i watched her (as we got off at the same stop, she b4 me) but she didn't adjust or anything, just walked....

i've never been a conventional person but with all the "rapes" n murders rate going up, n in the middle of the night, my thought were that if something should really happened to her that night, she's asking for it lo....  she would definitely not be getting my sympathy lo...  sigh...  really don't know what this world's coming to lo...  or am i just getting old?  

Good Deed??? Don't know.... But all that matters is ..... I feel good.... :D

was on the mtr today when i suddenly hear sound of liquid splashing and see people getting out of their seats and moving away....  within seconds, the area emptied and i realized that a guy was vomiting near the last door between the "car"...  a friend's with him and they immediately got off the next stop - north point....  the "scene" was really gross....  he must have really felt very unwell but he looked quite alright when he got off....  when i got off @ quarry bay, i noticed that the train's # D614 and we were in car #6 near #5...  don't know why, just felt that someone should inform the station about what had just happened esp. with swine flu n all...  probably they need to do some special cleaning or something but couldn't find anyone around....  thus got to exit n inform the cs there....  hopefully i wasn't making a mountain out of nothing but during times like this its best to be safe isn't it???  though not sure if they (mtr) would really take notice n do something about it but at least i've done my part....  :D

Not sure if I did a good deed or the right thing but all that matters is...  I feel good about it....  haha....

Irritated....

God! Some people r just too much....  I'm @ mac now having breakfast n the old man sitting @ the table beside me, actually dare to pretend, pretend n then sit between his n my table n started reading the newspaper by putting each of his hands on both my n his table respectively....  I just can't stand this type of deliberate behaviour lo....  Mac table already very small, we r both paying customer n yet for his own comfort, he just take advantage of me lo....  god...  so i very bad la, i just pretend to need to use my pc, n needed to adjust my table for use and thus force him to remove his hands from my table...  haha...  Maybe I'm just sleepy la, so in a lousy n irritatable mood lo...  sigh...  people....

:D succeeded in adding posterous box into my profile... now my friends can read my blog directly from facebook without the need to go elsewhere.... cool...

One thing about facebook that used to bother me was using notes to blog... i don't know y, i just don't like them and its such a nuisance to have to login in order to write...  maybe i was stupid but i wasn't able to find a way to import my blog or email to blog...  thus heck care lo...  but now with posterous, i can email to blog n update all blogs as well as facebook n twitter...  :D i guess you would all hear more from me from now on....